Stoke

In 2015, Child Bereavement UK concluded a three year project (funded by the Department of Health) where we endeavoured to improve bereavement support in six areas across England that featured highly on the Index of Multiple Deprivation.

In each area, we established a Bereavement Advisory Group bringing together representation from Health, Education, Social Care, Voluntary Organisations and Bereaved Families. We also held study days and training opportunities in each area, and in some cases collaborated with other services to reach more bereaved children and families. A bereavement pathway – with reference to local and national services – was created for each area, along with information on the range of support needs that children and families may experience (with the acceptance that many bereaved individuals require only a modicum of support if they have an understanding family, school, workplace or social circle).

To date, the Stoke-on-Trent Advisory Group continues to meet as the Stoke and Staffordshire Bereavement Alliance, chaired by Dot Gillespie who is CEO of Donna Louise Children’s Hospice in Stoke. In addition to the training and networking the group achieved during the original project period, they have since held three successful conferences to raise awareness and offer training to local practitioners including teachers, nurses and social workers.

We have collaborated with local charities including:

The Dove Service, A Child of Mine, Donna Louise Trust, and St Giles Hospice.

Close relationships were also forged with the Staffordshire CDOP (Child Death Overview Panel) which led to wide training across health and police services. The Dove Service is probably the best known support intervention in the area and Child Bereavement UK continues to maintain links with the Advisory Group.

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Liverpool

To date, Liverpool’s Bereavement Advisory Group continues to meet and has recently welcomed new members from ‘Love Jasmine’ and ‘Oakleaf’. Calls to the CBUK Helpline have increased, as have visits to our website from the Liverpool area. Most significantly, we have developed a strong working relationship with Education, culminating in Liverpool CCG funding a powerful booklet “A Whole School Approach to Supporting Loss and Bereavement” devised and created by two of our Advisory Group members.
Hull

To date, the Hull Advisory Group continues to meet and has a breadth of membership including representation from: Dove House Hospice; Cruse; Relate; Health Practitioners; Hull University, the Local Authority, the Children’s University, Headstart and Cornerhouse. Hull has received Headstart funding to support emotional wellbeing in 10 – 16 year olds – and CBUK have been able to support with workforce training, and awareness sessions in some schools.
Middlesbrough

During the 2012 – 2015 project, we made contact with a range of professionals and practitioners across Middlesbrough. We held a Bereavement Awareness study day at the Chinese Community Centre in the heart of the city. We also forged links with Middlesbrough Voluntary Development Agency as well as the manager of the local CDOP (Child Death Overview Panel) – who arranged several training sessions for local children’s practitioners from across health, education and social care.

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