Nicola Gilham BA ACA

Nicola, a qualified chartered accountant, enjoyed her first career with Arthur Andersen where, for many years, she led consulting assignments, in the UK and overseas. Whilst living in Australia, she moved into recruitment, and has worked in the sector for over twenty years; she was formerly CEO of a leading HR recruitment business in London. Nicola now pursues a portfolio non-executive career working as an independent Board adviser for recruitment businesses and organisations within the Third Sector.

She has a long-standing interest in her local community. She has spent several years, in a voluntary capacity, as a telephone counsellor for emotional support services. She sits on several boards in an independent capacity, including Healthwatch Bucks, Jordans Village Ltd, the national social enterprise Turning Point and also the Children’s Services company, Brighter Futures for Children in Reading.

Nicola is Vice Chair of the Board of Child Bereavement UK; she is also the Chair of the Risk and Governance Committee and sits on both the Remuneration and Investment Committees.

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Telling a child that someone has died

It is important to tell a child of any age when someone important in their lives has died, and ideally this is done by someone who is closest to them.
Supporting bereaved children and young people

Children and young people grieve just as much as adults but they show it in different ways. Find out how you can help them and more about child grieving.
Grieving for a child of any age

The agony of losing a child of any age is unparalleled. There is no age or point in time that makes it any easier. No parent expects to face the death of their child and no grandparent expects to lose their grandchild.
When a grandparent dies - the impact on children and young people

The death of a grandparent is often a child or young person’s first encounter with the death of someone important. Parents have a great deal to manage when their own parent or carer dies. There is the grief associated with their own loss, but also the reactions and responses of their children to the death of a grandparent.
Children's understanding of death at different ages

Babies and young children have no understanding of the concept of death yet, long before they are able to talk, babies are likely to react to upset and changes in their environment brought about by the absence of a significant person.
Child Bereavement UK training

Child Bereavement UK designs and delivers training for professionals in health and social care, education, the emergency services and the voluntary and corporate sectors, equipping them to provide the best possible care to bereaved families.
Contact us

Contact details for our Helpline, departments and services.
When your baby dies

When a baby lives only a short time or dies before birth due to miscarriage, stillbirth or a painful decision to end the pregnancy, people may assume that the loss is not important. This is simply not the case.
Children's understanding of death at different ages

Guidance on children's understanding of death at different ages and stages of development.
UK death & bereavement statistics

A parent of children under 18 dies every 22 minutes in the UK; around 23,600 a year. This equates to around 111 children being bereaved of a parent every day.