Aberdeen SANDS

Who we are:

Aberdeen SANDS is one of more than 100 self-help support SANDS groups which exist nationwide. The Aberdeen group is run by a committee of bereaved parents who are volunteers and who have also suffered the loss of a baby. We have no office and are funded by our own efforts or by donations.

What we offer:

We aim to support bereaved parents and families whose baby has died before, during or around the time of birth. We have trained befrienders and can offer support by telephone, email, one to one contact or at one of our monthly support meetings.

How to contact us:

Tel: 0870 760 6649
Email: [email protected]
Website: www.aberdeen-sands.org

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