Elephant's Tea Party

Fun resources to equip pupils with coping skills for bereavement, now and in later life

By talking about death and dying as a normal and natural subject, it can help enable bereaved
children to have better coping skills. Giving children support from familiar, trusted adults will mean that most will not need professional help. Schools are well placed to provide this support.

The Elephant's Tea Party is a free initiative for schools that raises the topics of death and grief in a sensitive and age-appropriate way. It helps teachers give children the emotional literacy and life skills needed to equip them for bereavement, now and in later life.

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Understanding traumatic bereavement in children and young people

Interactive training
Strategies for working with bereaved pupils in school- Birmingham

Workshop - In Person Event
Strategies for working with bereaved pupils in school - London

Workshop - In Person Event

JLS Prize Draw
Understanding traumatic bereavement in children and young people

Interactive training
Strategies for working with bereaved pupils in school- Birmingham

Workshop - In Person Event
Strategies for working with bereaved pupils in school - London

Workshop - In Person Event
Strategies for working with bereaved pupils in school- Buckinghamshire

Workshop - In Person Event
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SUDIC Bereavement Support Practitioner | Part-time | Leeds/West Yorkshire

We are seeking someone able to work with and support families affected by sudden unexpected death in childhood (SUDIC), and alongside other professionals who support them.
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Telling a child that someone has died

It is important to tell a child of any age when someone important in their lives has died, and ideally this is done by someone who is closest to them.
Supporting bereaved children and young people

Children and young people grieve just as much as adults but they show it in different ways. Find out how you can help them and more about child grieving.
Grieving for a child of any age

The agony of losing a child of any age is unparalleled. There is no age or point in time that makes it any easier. No parent expects to face the death of their child and no grandparent expects to lose their grandchild.
When a grandparent dies

The death of a grandparent is often a child or young person’s first encounter with the death of someone important. Parents have a great deal to manage when their own parent or carer dies. There is the grief associated with their own loss, but also the reactions and responses of their children to the death of a grandparent.
Children's understanding of death at different ages

Guidance on children's understanding of death at different ages and stages of development.
Child Bereavement UK training

Child Bereavement UK designs and delivers training for professionals in health and social care, education, the emergency services and the voluntary and corporate sectors, equipping them to provide the best possible care to bereaved families.
Children's understanding of death at different ages

Babies and young children have no understanding of the concept of death yet, long before they are able to talk, babies are likely to react to upset and changes in their environment brought about by the absence of a significant person.
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When your baby dies

When a baby lives only a short time or dies before birth due to miscarriage, stillbirth or a painful decision to end the pregnancy, people may assume that the loss is not important. This is simply not the case.
UK death & bereavement statistics

A parent of children under 18 dies every 22 minutes in the UK; around 23,600 a year. This equates to around 111 children being bereaved of a parent every day.