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Secondary schools

Information for teachers, teaching assistants, learning support assistants, headteachers, education welfare officers and other adults working in secondary schools

Children mature at different rates and their understanding and responses to bereavement are likely to be based as much on their experience of life as on their chronological age.  As they grow older, young people may need to look again at the details surrounding the death of an important person. Feelings they had when young will be different several years further on as their understanding matures and the meaning of the death changes as they move through life. This is not unresolved grief but the experience of different feelings later in life, often connected to major life events such as switching classes, moving up to senior school or other significant change.

It is important to remember that young people will be grieving for life and the loss will always be with them. 

People are often at a loss as to know what to say or do to help a student who has been bereaved by the death of someone important to them. Every situation is different, and young people will be affected to a greater or lesser degree, dependent on the circumstances of the death and the nature of the relationship they had with the person who has died.

Most grieving children and young people do not need a ‘bereavement expert’ they need people who care. Schools, just by carrying on with their usual day-to-day activities while being aware of the bereavement, can do a huge amount to support a grieving pupil.



Supporting a bereaved student in secondary school

Bereaved young people in secondary school need the stability of a familiar routine with caring adults. Read more

Published: 29th March, 2019

Updated: 22nd July, 2020

Author: Robin Ngai

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Support for the family

Information and support for a bereaved family with a pupil in secondary school. Read more

Published: 28th March, 2019

Updated: 22nd June, 2020

Author: Robin Ngai

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  • Secondary schools

Support for yourself

Supporting a bereaved child can be emotionally draining and it is important to recognise when you need some help. Read more

Published: 27th March, 2019

Updated: 22nd July, 2020

Author: Robin Ngai

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Developing a bereavement policy or charter

A school with a bereavement policy is prepared and has plans in place to deal with death, grief and bereavement. This applies to supporting a bereaved pupil or member of staff as well as reacting to a critical incident or tragedy, such as the death of someone within the school community. Read more

Published: 26th March, 2019

Updated: 24th March, 2020

Author: Robin Ngai

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Managing bereavement: A guide for schools

An information pack for schools supporting bereaved pupils in secondary schools - loss, death and grief. The pack contains a series of A4 fact sheets, offering guidance, support and information when a death occurs in the school community or when a school is facing an expected death. Can be Downloaded free of charge. Read more

Published: 1st March, 2019

Updated: 24th March, 2020

Author: Tracey Boseley

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Books and resources

Books can be used to introduce death and grief to young people.  By choosing books suitable for individual circumstances, they can also be used to help bereaved pupils to feel less alone and make sense of confusing and overwhelming emotions. Read more

Published: 1st August, 2018

Updated: 22nd July, 2020

Author: Robin Ngai

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    Telling a child that someone has died

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    Supporting a bereaved pupil

    This comprehensive, free-to-access resource , Supporting a bereaved pupil has been developed by Child Bereavement UK in collaboration with the London Grid for Learning.

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    What we offer

    Child Bereavement UK provides a wide range of training, consultancy and support services to help professionals help bereaved children and families

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    When your baby dies

    When a baby lives only a short time or dies before birth due to miscarriage, stillbirth or a painful decision to end the pregnancy, people may assume that the loss is not important. This is simply not the case.

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  • UK death & bereavement statistics

    UK death & bereavement statistics

    A parent of children under 18 dies every 22 minutes in the UK; around 23,600 a year. This equates to around 111 children being bereaved of a parent every day.

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    Grieving for a child of any age

    The agony of losing a child of any age is unparalleled. There is no age or point in time that makes it any easier. No parent expects to face the death of their child and no grandparent expects to lose their grandchild.

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    Frightening events widely reported in the media, such as the coronavirus Covid-19 pandemic, can cause children to worry about themselves and others.

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